10 Annoying Things You’re Doing At A Bar, According to Bartenders

Unwarranted Touching and Comments

This should go without saying, but keep your hands to yourself. Touching your bartender is inappropriate. Additionally, keep any judgments on appearance to yourself — sexualizing anyone, bartender or not, is unacceptable and rating people is uncalled for. Telling someone to smile is also unnecessary.

 Not Knowing What to Order After Flagging Someone Down

If you have a question, this is completely understandable. Otherwise, as a general rule of thumb, know what you’re getting if you’ve asked for a bartender’s attention. Trevor Easton Langer, head bartender at Jac’s on Bond, says this is particularly pertinent to busy periods and when you’re ordering on behalf of a large group.